Ruth has taken as a sign a letter from HIStory. IT was sent y received on her only brother's birthday. IT informed her of Carolyn's sudden loss of a husband on her birthday, 6 January. Carolyn is the name of a family friend and also Ruth's first name. Carolyn Ruth (the founder of CYFFR at RainbowWay.org) was married for thirteen years to Terry John. They divorced in the early '70s.
In the '80s she became engaged to Lee whose family rejected her on grounds of religious beliefs. HIS BIRTHDAY IS THE DAY OF EPIPHANY, 6 JANUARY. They professed devotion to the Roman Catholic Church; Carolyn was born and remains Methodist. With the help of their "only" brothers, the two accepted marriage as defined by "Common Sense" law.
